Updated for 2026

Handing a child an Android phone or tablet does not have to feel like handing them the whole internet. Google's free Family Link app gives you a real set of controls: daily screen time limits, approval over which apps get installed, location on a map, and content filters tuned to your child's age. It is built into Android rather than bolted on, which makes it harder for a tech-savvy kid to quietly uninstall. This guide walks you through the actual setup, the exact menu paths and setting names, what each control really does (and does not) protect against, and the awkward but important fact that the rules loosen automatically when your child turns 13. We will also be honest about where third-party apps still beat Family Link, so you spend money only where it counts.
Before you install anything, it helps to know what you are signing up for. Google Family Link is Google's official parental control system, and it works by linking your child's Google Account to yours through a family group. Once linked, you manage their account from your phone, and the rules follow the account onto any Android device they sign in to.
Here is the honest scope of what it covers:
What it does not do: Family Link is not a spyware tool. It does not read your child's text messages, show you their private chats inside apps like WhatsApp or Snapchat, or record their calls. It controls the Play Store and Google's own services well, but it cannot police what happens inside a third-party app once that app is installed. Treat it as a fence around the device, not a camera inside every room. Google lays out the full feature list on the official Family Link page.
Setup goes faster if you gather these first. You need two devices in front of you, or at least both within reach.
One data-safety note up front: setting up Family Link on a device that is already in use does not wipe it, but linking a brand-new child account to a phone that was previously signed in to an adult account can get messy. The cleanest path is to factory reset a hand-me-down device first and set it up fresh with the child's account. If the device holds photos or files you want to keep, back them up to Google Photos or copy them to a computer before you reset.
The flow below assumes you are setting up controls for a child under 13. The steps are nearly identical for an existing teen account, except you skip the account-creation part.
If anything stalls, Google's Families help center has device-specific troubleshooting. The most common snag is a slow account sync: give it a few minutes and reopen the app rather than restarting the whole process.
Screen time is the control most parents reach for first. In Family Link, open your child's profile, then tap Controls, then Screen time. You have three levers here, and they stack together.
Under Daily limit, set a number of hours for each day of the week. You can give weekends more time than school nights. When the limit is hit, the device locks to a screen the child cannot dismiss, though calls and any apps you mark Always allowed still work.
Under Bedtime (sometimes labelled Downtime), set a start and end time per day. During this window the device locks regardless of how much daily time is left. This is the single most useful setting for getting a phone out of a bedroom overnight.
Tap an individual app inside the child's profile to set a limit just for that app, for example one hour of a game while leaving messaging open. You can also tap the hourglass icon to set a specific app to Always allowed, Set limit, or Block.
The escape hatch you will use most: the Lock now button on the child's profile. It instantly locks the device until you unlock it, which is handy at the dinner table. There is also a Bonus time option to grant extra minutes on the fly without changing the daily rule. Be aware that Family Link's time tracking can lag by a few minutes and that watching downloaded video offline is not always counted the way streaming is, so the numbers are a strong guide rather than a stopwatch.
This is where you decide what actually lands on the device. Two distinct controls work together here: approval (gatekeeping new installs) and content filters (limiting what is mature or explicit).
In the child's profile, go to Controls, then Content restrictions, then Google Play. Turn on Approvals so that every install and in-app purchase needs your sign-off. When your child taps Install, a request pops up on your phone, and the download waits until you approve or decline. You can require approval for all content or only for paid items, but for younger children, requiring it for everything is the safer default.
In the same Google Play menu, set maximum maturity ratings for Apps and games, Movies, TV, and Books. Android uses regional rating systems (such as ESRB, PEGI, or USK depending on your country), so the labels you see match your local standards.
Still under Content restrictions, you will find separate toggles:
A practical tip: filters reduce exposure, they do not eliminate it. Pair them with an ongoing conversation about what to do when something inappropriate slips through, because eventually something will. If you want a deeper layer, our roundup of the best antivirus apps for Android covers tools that add web-protection on top of Family Link.
Family Link can show your child's device on a map, which is reassurance more than surveillance for most families. In the child's profile, tap Location, then turn on See your child's location. The child's device needs location services switched on and a network or GPS signal for this to work.
Once active, you can:
Two honest caveats. First, you are tracking the device, not the child, so a phone left at a friend's house tells you nothing useful. Second, location can drain battery and is easy for an older child to defeat by simply turning the phone off. Use it as a safety net, and tell your child it is on. Secret tracking erodes trust fast, and Family Link is not designed to be covert anyway.
This catches many parents off guard, so plan for it. When a child reaches 13 (the age varies by country, and it is the age of consent for data processing under rules like the US COPPA and the EU GDPR), Google treats their account differently. On or near their birthday, your teen gets the option to manage their own account.
Here is what actually happens:
The practical takeaway: the 13th birthday is a conversation, not a cliff. Many families keep supervision running with the teen's agreement, shifting from hard limits toward visibility and trust. If you want the controls to continue, talk about it before the birthday rather than discovering the change after the fact.
Family Link is free, official, and deeply integrated, which makes it the right starting point for almost everyone. But it has real gaps, and that is where paid third-party apps earn their keep. Here is how to think about the choice honestly.
Well-known paid options include Qustodio, Bark, and Norton Family, each with different strengths (Bark, for example, focuses on flagging concerning content rather than blanket blocking). They cost money, usually a yearly subscription, and some require more invasive permissions, so weigh the privacy trade-off. A reasonable approach for many families is to run Family Link as the backbone and add one focused third-party tool only for the specific gap you actually have. For locking down individual apps on a shared device, our guide to the best app lock apps for Android covers a lighter-weight option that pairs well with Family Link.
Setting up Family Link is the easy part. Keeping it useful over months takes a little upkeep. Here is the short maintenance list we would give a friend.
Used this way, as a transparent fence rather than a hidden camera, Family Link does its job well: it buys younger children a safer space online and gives you the visibility to step in when it matters, while leaving room to hand back control as your child earns it.
Yes. Family Link is completely free, with no subscription or in-app purchase to unlock features. It is built into Android and available on the Play Store. The only paid alternatives are third-party apps like Qustodio, Bark, or Norton Family, which you would only add if you need something Family Link does not cover, such as monitoring inside social media apps or managing iPhones and Windows PCs in the same family.
Not easily. Because the controls are tied to the child's Google Account and enforced at the system level, a child cannot simply uninstall the supervision the way they could a normal app. They can try workarounds like a factory reset, but those require credentials and a child account that is part of your family group will re-apply supervision when it signs back in. Determined teens can sometimes find gaps, so periodic check-ins are still wise.
At 13 (the age varies slightly by country), your child becomes eligible to manage their own Google Account. They can choose to keep supervision on or turn it off, and Google notifies you either way. You can no longer force tight restrictions on an account whose holder is 13 or older. The best move is to talk about it before the birthday so you can agree to continue supervision in a lighter, trust-based form rather than losing it overnight.
No. Family Link is a device-management tool, not a spying tool. It controls screen time, app installs, content ratings, and location, but it does not show you the contents of text messages or private chats inside apps like WhatsApp, Snapchat, or Instagram. If reading or flagging in-app messages is essential for your situation, that is one of the few areas where a paid third-party app such as Bark goes further, with the privacy trade-offs that implies.
Linking an existing child account to a device does not by itself wipe it. The risk comes from switching a device from an adult account to a child account, which is cleanest done with a factory reset first, and a reset does erase everything. The safe rule: if the phone holds photos or files you want to keep, back them up to Google Photos or a computer before you make any account changes, so nothing is lost.
Yes. That is the core convenience of Family Link. From the app on your own phone you can change daily limits, set bedtime windows, grant bonus time, and tap Lock now to instantly lock the child's device wherever it is, as long as both devices have a network connection. Changes sync within a few minutes, so you do not need physical access to the child's phone to adjust the rules.